Thursday, May 21, 2009

this is the part where we fall in love

"Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope." - He's Just Not That Into You.

I enjoyed the movie, cause they know wtf they're talking about! Haha. My kuya even related to the whole, getting married is a stupid thing, part. Us girls are so focused on the so-called "happy ending" to our lives that we don't notice the shitty things that a guy does to us. Until, the day he leaves you to do the same thing to another girl. But who knows, maybe the next girl is the exception. And maybe someday, if you don't try so hard to find that perfect prince charming of yours, maybe a guy might come and you become the exception :)

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